Shopper annoyed by lack of supermarket etiquette

Dear Abby

Advice Columnist

DEAR ABBY: Can you please educate your readers about supermarket etiquette? Every time I buy groceries, I encounter people who push or park their carts in the middle of the aisle with no consideration for other shoppers. I also see them blindly blast through intersections in the aisles and barely avoid colliding with each other.

A few weeks ago, I said to a gentleman, “Pardon me, may I go around you? Thank you.” He responded that I was the first person who had ever said that to him! I’m surprised there aren’t more cases of road rage in supermarkets.

My suggestion: Why don’t we follow basic traffic rules in the supermarket? For example, stay to the right unless you are passing. Yield at intersections to the shopper on the right, etc. Abby, what do you think? Also, what’s your take on big kids riding in the grocery carts? — DISGUSTED SHOPPER IN ILLINOIS

DEAR DISGUSTED: What you describe happens when folks fail to consider how their behavior affects others. When someone blocks the aisle with a grocery cart, the logical way to deal with it is to say, “Excuse me, please,” which alerts the “offender” that there are others in the store besides him or her.

Your suggestion that shoppers observe basic traffic rules is a good one — particularly when it involves observing the speed limit.

Charging through the intersections of the aisles could cause an accident in which another shopper is harmed.

As to “big kids” riding in shopping carts, as long as they aren’t bothering other shoppers and the store doesn’t care, I mind my own business and don’t judge.

(Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com)

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